Keeper

Dear J
Contents
1 Introduction

1 Introduction

1. All this will be a shock. I had hoped to pass this stage by now but needed to wait until when the time was right. I needed to establish that your computer is not viewed by any member of your family.
2. If email is resorted to you, can obviously delete the link after saving the website.
3. As part of the privacy/security aspects, your members of your family are 'coded'.
4. As you live with 'D', I hope his access to your private afffairs is 100% denied.
5. You may decide that you want no part of the 'interaction' between D and me and that will be respected.
6. If the 'no part' decision is made, this page will be obliterated.
7. Should you decide to plough on, it will not be shown or made available to D. Thus it will be a 'hidden' page accessible only by you having saved it.
8. As you have seen the page title, it arrived after a lot of thought. There is no expectation that you are being asked to shepherd D through the process of him mending his ways. Absolutely not!
9. Further to 13, as far as D is concerned, this page doesn't exist. It will be very interesting for you to see if he raises concern with you about this website.
10. And, of course, that is a mattter between you and D.

2 Modus operandi

1. Before sending the website Introduction page to D. I need to establish that his computer is not viewed by any member of your family.
2. That means of course that I must attend to MO as well. P and I sit together on the sofa every evening and quite often show each other links etc on our respective ipads.
3. My many years as an unpaid carer included times when I preferred a pseudonym.
4. rgsmedley@talktalk.net if you please. I hope it's not too much trouble and that. This way works.
5. All very Machiavellian, I'm afraid. All at the cost of further 'social mistakes' being made.

3 Onward into 2021
For the moment, I can't envisage how my piece of mind will be regained.
It will emerge in due course, I'm sure.
As you will readily agree, D is a good man. Although I have needed to hurl strong adjectives at him as part of clearing my mind, his actions reduce to thoughtlessness and the need to be the centre of attraction.
At present, I don't want to engage him. That will be made plain before he receives the website.

3 Security
Privacy/security aspects of this website have been given much attention.
How many websites are there in the world?
According to the World Wide Web Size Project, the number of webpages indexed in Google is at least 4.45 billion.
Expectedly, this number is more than the total number of existing websites (around 1.3 billion). source
How many personal websites in the world? Very difficult to determine.
Google seems only to present systems for building them. more. more private sites
Guessing that they are as low as 10%, we remove one nought from 13,000,000,000 = 1300,000,000.
Probability of anyone running into this website is very low. I have been looking at www since 2004 and have never gained access to any personal website.4 Onward into 2021
For the moment, I can't envisage how my piece of mind will be regained.
It will emerge in due course, I'm sure.
As you will readily agree, D is a good man. Although I have needed to hurl strong adjectives at him as part of clearing my mind, his actions reduce to thoughtlessness and the need to be the centre of attraction.
At present, I don't want to engage him. That will be made plain before he receives the website.