. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .My return to normality
8 January
My return to normality is not the only factor. Your behaviour-change is paramount.
1 The immediate future
2 In the next few weeks
3 Not at any time
4 The self
5 Perpetrator and victim
1 The immediate future
- Whenever there is a family event, as has been said, you and I must behave normally.
- It has also been said that I cannot face you yet. However, I must do more work.
2 In the next few weeks
- I can't see how you and I can meet separately. You have opportunity to
go out on your own. There is less chance for me. Perhaps I could go
out for DIY bits and pieces in which case something might be arranged.
- However, that is not even wishful thinking. Although I've just said I must do more work I will eventually reach the limit of adding anything more to this site.
- Two competing Latin phrases - tempus fugit and tempus neminem manet: time waits for no one. more
- I just hope that tempus will do its best.
3 Not at any time
.1 No one-to-one contact
That includes text, snail mail and email. P and I often sit together and they can arrive.
.2 Wine etc
- I was thinking about the situation of a problem centred on a man embarrassing a woman. He might well have bought flowers and/or a meal.
- I have at least 50 books on science.
- There is abso no thought of being given anything. The only possible gain is your peace of mind, not mine.
4 The self
You can think of the "self" as someone's persona or worldview. At the deepest level, you might think of it as their soul or essence of being. I have explored some aspects of how what we think and do are related to the person who we are inside. And conversely, how do the things around us affect how we think and feel? (Edited from text here.)
1.2 and 2.2 refer to me doing more work. Item 5 includes involving a "rescuer". Another concept which is irrelevant.
5 Perpetrator and victim
"Meanwhile" (whatever that might mean in this situation) you are invited to reflect upon two pages from another of my websites starting here.
There are parallels. Even if I wanted to I cannot expose your inconsiderate and entirely inappropriate selfishness to those present on 25 Dec.